My Husband’s Message

Good morning... My husband, Rev. Steve Allen, shared a life-giving message during Tuesday's memorial service, honoring another deeply missed dad in our close-knit community. Steve chose to read what seemed like an "odd" Scripture for a funeral, at first glance. Aloud he read: Jesus said to one who had invited him to a dinner, "When you give a luncheon, [...]

By |2019-06-14T13:27:08-04:00June 15th, 2019|Everyday life, Family and Friends, Grief, Light In Darkness|

Two Daughters Let Go

Good morning... At Tuesday's memorial service, two dearly loved daughters stepped up to the microphone. One recounted a string of incredible memories of a passionate dad who held nothing back, loving freely and fully, each day of his life. The other daughter read aloud the following poem, allowing us all to feel the power of deep love living [...]

By |2019-06-13T00:27:26-04:00June 13th, 2019|Family and Friends, Grief, Letting Go, Loss|

Burying A Beloved One

Good morning... On the morning when another family in our community will host a memorial service for a beloved husband, father, friend, I return to the illusive promise eluded to in yesterday's post. On this one-of-a-kind day, how can the joy of the Lord be our strength? And Nehemiah continued, “Go and celebrate with a feast of rich foods [...]

By |2019-06-11T08:18:23-04:00June 11th, 2019|Family and Friends, Grief, Joy, Trust God|

Come Home To God

Good morning... The old wooden pews were nicely filled. After saying "Hello" to a handful of friendly, familiar faces, I was escorted to the front of the church, to a velvety antique chair just behind the pulpit. "Oh no," my heart sank. I thought I would be non-conspicuously sitting with the church family until it was my time [...]

By |2019-06-03T13:28:02-04:00June 3rd, 2019|Community, Family and Friends, God's Love, Home, Unity|

One Special Dinner

Good morning... Last night I enjoyed a very special dinner. I slid into my seat with a private tableful of women, three I knew mildly, four I had never met. These longtime friends asked me to join them as they discussed how to help their teenage daughters process a time of deep loss and great grief. Another family [...]

By |2019-05-30T10:25:04-04:00May 30th, 2019|Family and Friends, God's Love, Gratitude, Grief|

Remember

Good morning... "Sue, my dear friend," he wrote, "this weekend I hope everyone will take three minutes to remember the hundreds of thousands of Americans who died on battlefields across the globe over the years in places like Belleau Wood, the beaches of Normandy, the Battle of the Bulge, the sands of Iwo Jima, and the meat grinder [...]

By |2019-05-27T07:53:07-04:00May 27th, 2019|Community, Family and Friends, Grief, Loss, Unity|

Be A Favorite Sweatshirt

Good morning... "Sue, I love this message - and it’s a lesson I’ve gradually learned this past year hosting a weekly Bible study in my home for the first time," one of you wrote after our Monday post, Welcome To Our Messy Home. She noticed her change of heart: "For the first meeting back in September, I made [...]

By |2019-05-22T07:19:17-04:00May 22nd, 2019|Everyday life, Family and Friends, Home, Spiritual Growth|

Mother’s Day Meltdowns

Good morning... I woke up yesterday to a text from one of you: Right away I responded, with the fresh memory of our UGLY "crazy" popping out on Easter morning: "Thanks! You too. Hoping for less of a Mother's Day meltdown. How about you? Ours has begun well, but it's only 10:00 am. Enjoy your imperfectly rainy day." [...]

By |2019-05-13T06:41:50-04:00May 13th, 2019|Aging, Family and Friends, God's Love, Gratitude, Spiritual Growth|

Bless Don’t Stress

Good morning... "My dear Sue," she wrote. "I did not respond to your 'crazy' message as I was proudly basking in the light of a perfectly celebrated Easter weekend with our children and grandchildren. I was quickly brought back to reality when I received a text from our daughter blaming me for her daughter being sick at school [...]

By |2019-04-24T11:56:10-04:00April 26th, 2019|Family and Friends, Gratitude, Imperfection, Spiritual Growth|
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