He Welcomed Her Grief

Good morning... As we near 2:00 am, I take outside our little dog Gracie and stand barefoot in the wet, cool grass. As I look up, thick clouds surround the waning moon. Stretched wide and thin, the white vapors open space, a breathing room for blue. Blue. Cloudy. Stretched wide and thin. These descriptors animate the text string [...]

By |2025-08-13T03:07:59-04:00August 13th, 2025|Death And Resurrection, Family and Friends, God's Love, Grief, Prayer|

Mooning Each Other

Good morning... "This is from Ogunquit, Maine tonight," wrote a friend who lost her husband in May. "So gorgeous," I replied, before climbing into bed. "Full moon tonight. Hope you are enjoying Maine's unique beauty and the companionship of old friends." "Full moon is gorgeous here, too," I texted [...]

By |2025-08-09T03:40:32-04:00August 9th, 2025|Everyday life, Family and Friends, God's Plan, Grief, Light In Darkness|

Celebrating Marilyn

Good morning... Our pastor read Proverbs 31:10-31, a section of scripture which bears the heading: The Wife of Noble Character. I heard a familiar voice behind me whisper, "Those words describe Marilyn perfectly." One particular verse lingers in my mind from yesterday's simple service honoring the extraordinary life of 92 year old Marilyn Davis. Strength and dignity are [...]

By |2025-08-05T08:02:56-04:00August 5th, 2025|Death And Resurrection, Faith, Family and Friends, God's Plan, Joy|

We’re Bonded Forever

Good morning... "Thinking about you and holding you and Tate in my heart," wrote my friend on one random morning. "I bet she is playing with my Watson. I love you." What a sweet reminder. We talk about our loved ones in heaven all the time. And they somehow sense our constant connection. This reminder helps me with [...]

Join Me On The Porch

Good morning... This unique 4th of July, I truly believe there's room on the porch for everyone. Come on up! Lingering as we wake is a portion of our prayer from yesterday's post: May we find ourselves reminded that we belong to one another. Neighbors. Strangers. Friends. All wrapped up together in this web of beautiful, terrible inter-dependence. [...]

By |2025-07-04T06:41:51-04:00July 4th, 2025|Abundance, Community, Everyday life, Family and Friends, God's Love|

Tate Still Teaches

Good morning... Our nine year old dog went to heaven recently, and what I learned from our choice to release Tate's spirit from her cancer-filled body helped me this week. A friend called, distraught. Their ten year old dog had inoperable tumors growing in his liver. He would happily walk their five mile route, then he would suddenly [...]

Elizabeth’s Love

Good morning... Month after month, day by day, our written word community prayed diligently for Elizabeth, a creative mom of three, an incredible wife, and a kind friend to so many. One year ago today, Elizabeth's cancer journey invited her into her heavenly home. Revisiting her beautiful obituary helps us to remember Elizabeth's vibrant life and her bottomless [...]

Dear Loved One

Good morning... "I thought of you and Audrey’s family when I read this and just wanted to share," an old friend wrote. Received in the midst of a challenging week, God's timing was perfect. ******* Dear Loved One by Sean of the South, June 18th This is weird. I realize this. But I wanted to write to you, [...]

By |2025-06-20T02:56:23-04:00June 20th, 2025|Community, Everyday life, Family and Friends, God's Love, Unity|

Known. Seen. Loved.

Good morning... "I was just thinking,” yesterday I texted our Fab Five friend group, a group that has supported the cancer journey of the DeShetler family for the last fifteen years. “Jesus was on earth for 33 years, and, Jennifer, I wonder if our Father missed his son’s presence in heaven, like you are missing Audrey on earth.” [...]

By |2025-06-17T08:09:04-04:00June 17th, 2025|Death And Resurrection, Family and Friends, God's Love, Grief|

Note To Audrey’s Mom

Good morning... As we stood in the hallway of the funeral home yesterday, waiting to join the family for a private viewing of Audrey in her open casket, my friend showed me the new screen saver on her phone. I snapped the precious photo above. A fun memory from an earlier day. Pink. Smiling. Relaxing. Together. What a [...]

By |2025-06-14T09:14:19-04:00June 14th, 2025|Death And Resurrection, Family and Friends, God's Love, Gratitude, Joy|
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