Celebrating Our Sons

Good morning... Last Friday night, November 1st, I attended my friend's Day of the Dead party, a sacred evening when we celebrate loved ones who have gone on to heaven. The photo above is the altar I built to honor two young men, two of my 24-year-old son's close high school buddies, who have died suddenly in the [...]

By |2019-11-08T08:13:47-05:00November 8th, 2019|Aging, Death And Resurrection, Grief, Healing, Prayer|

Still Quiet Moments Of Grief

Good morning... Sometimes we meet soul-to-soul before we ever see one another face-to-face. This is the sacred situation occurring between me and a subscriber from Charlotte, North Carolina. Mary writes me periodically to fill me in on her painful process of grieving her son, Dalton, who died suddenly at age twenty-one. In previous posts on the topic of [...]

By |2019-11-07T06:06:14-05:00November 7th, 2019|Awareness, Death And Resurrection, God's Word, Grief, Healing|

Turn Inward For Strength

Good morning... As I read these words aloud to our class yesterday, I wished I could whisper them into the ear of the reader struggling with a sense of uselessness, the many strangers who have lost everything in fire or flood, and my sleepless loved ones worrying, "Has our daughter's cancer returned?" "What authentic work is mine to [...]

By |2019-10-03T08:26:12-04:00October 3rd, 2019|Everyday life, Grief, Healing, Heaven On Earth, Trust God|

We Are Learning To Trust

Good morning... I crossed my legs and closed my eyes as she privately read aloud to me an excerpt from Nan Merrill's paraphrase of Psalm 106. ****** May we become bearers of joy, we who are invited to share in the Cosmic Dance! We pray for the gift of wisdom, that the motivations of our heart might be [...]

By |2019-09-15T06:17:53-04:00September 10th, 2019|Everyday life, Grief, Joy, Transformation, Trust God|

Making Peace With Suicide

Good morning... I woke to her email, short and deep. I wrote her right back, deep and long. Somehow God ministered to both of us as we unpacked our pain. Sharing just my private response, I invite you into our intimate expression. ****** Personal Email from Sue Allen - August 30th, 2019 Another suicide? Yes, it is completely [...]

By |2019-08-30T08:13:28-04:00August 30th, 2019|Community, God's Love, Grief, Healing, Suicide|

Choose Joy In Deep Loss

Good morning... "Sue, Thank you for your post this morning," she wrote after yesterday's message Flip On The Light. "Watching the movie clip made me smile and cry, which surprised me. I think it is a lot of things wrapped into one." She went on to explain, "One of the greatest compliments that I have received, since our 7-year-old [...]

By |2019-07-24T13:05:53-04:00July 25th, 2019|Everyday life, Grief, Healing, Joy, Loss|

Rest Here

Good morning... "Hi Sue," one of you wrote earlier in the week, after watching the video of Michaelanglo's statue, the Pieta. "The words of healing and strength from you and others is always needed and much appreciated. I hesitated to share my Pieta experience since it doesn’t reflect deep sorrow or grief, but it shares a small taste [...]

By |2019-07-20T14:52:20-04:00July 20th, 2019|Anxiety, God's Love, Grief, Healing|

A Eulogy for Cole

Good morning... It was Saturday, July 6th, the first morning of our family's vacation at my mother-in-law's log cabin on a tiny lake in Pennsylvania. I was leisurely floating on an intertube, chatting with my sister-in-law, when my husband Steve and my son Kyler called me over with these words, "Hey mom. Come here for a second. There [...]

By |2019-07-19T09:05:09-04:00July 19th, 2019|Community, Death And Resurrection, Depression, Grief, Healing|

We Comfort Each Other

Good morning... Artists over the years have depicted differently the lifesaving sacrifice of Jesus Christ. Replaying in my mind is the intimate video of the statue Pieta shared in yesterday's post, Savor Sabbath: From Pain To Peace. Michelango deeply depicts not only Jesus' full-bodied surrender, but the suffering sacrifice of his mother, Mary. After viewing this video yesterday, one [...]

By |2019-07-21T04:08:55-04:00July 15th, 2019|Death And Resurrection, God's Love, Grief, Jesus Christ|

We Honor Cole’s Life

Good morning... Receiving this sympathy email from the church, our community's loss is formally announced. Sympathy Northside Church extends its deepest sympathy to the family and friends of Cole McAfee Hagood, who passed away on Saturday, July 6, 2019. Memorial Service The Memorial Service will be at Northside Church in the Sanctuary on Friday, July 12, 2019 at 2:00 [...]

By |2019-07-13T18:52:43-04:00July 12th, 2019|Community, Death And Resurrection, Family and Friends, Grief, Loss|
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