Don’t Worry About Spills

Good morning... "I want to share this tune written by my nephew, which was released yesterday," a friend wrote on Saturday. "He's a father of three neat kids (15, 17, 20) and recently divorced. He's reflecting on his hope that his kids know that the time they spend together outweighs any of the mundane daily 'stuff.' Definitely comes [...]

By |2024-12-16T14:32:15-05:00December 16th, 2024|Everyday life, God's Love, Healing, Imperfection|

How To Love Imperfect People

Good morning... For many of us the Thanksgiving holiday involves people, lots of imperfect people. Well-meaning and flawed, imperfection is baked into our human nature. To prepare myself for the stretching hours ahead, I return now to wisdom found on page 184 in The Great Spiritual Migration by Brian McLaren. [...]

By |2024-11-27T04:38:49-05:00November 27th, 2024|Family and Friends, God's Love, Imperfection, Spiritual Growth|

The Coffee Cup Analogy

Good morning... Taking our dogs outside in the middle of this night, all is calm, all is dark. Instinctively, I turn toward the south and lift prayers for the lives being ravaged in Florida by the drenching winds and the storm surge of Hurricane Milton. Prayer. What does prayer do at a time like this? I lift prayers [...]

By |2024-10-10T09:21:34-04:00October 10th, 2024|Everyday life, Faith, Imperfection, Trust God|

Come On The Camino

Good morning... Arriving from different places, at different times, embodying different life stages, our group of twelve made it to Sarria, Spain. At our kick-off dinner, we were both wildly excited and completely exhausted from crowded travel and a six hour time change. For about eight hours we flew [...]

By |2024-09-21T18:57:47-04:00September 17th, 2024|God's Timing, Healing, Imperfection, Trust God|

Audrey’s At Notre Dame

Good morning... Oh, how I remember these dorm move-in days with all four of our kids. It has been pretty amazing to receive texts and photos of Audrey DeShelter's move-in experience at Notre Dame. Yesterday, her mom Jennifer posted about Audrey's transition on Facebook. So much beauty amid so much challenge. [...]

By |2024-09-07T02:04:21-04:00September 7th, 2024|Aging, Gratitude, Imperfection, Trust God|

No Easy Answers

Good morning... "Prior to my loss, my prayers had been petitions for things I hoped to have or intercessions for others," writes beloved author Paula D'Arcy, who lost her husband and her three year old daughter to the recklessness of a drunk driver. "Now my one prayer was, 'Show me. Show me,' or, 'Teach me how to see.' [...]

By |2024-07-13T02:04:36-04:00July 13th, 2024|Holy Spirit, Imperfection, Loss, Prayer|

Don’t Be Afraid

Good morning... Enjoying a meandering walk, I took a few photos after an early morning rain in Little Compton, Rhode Island. The purple pedals. The yellow center. The lush green leaves. The rocky eastern shore. The naturally fallen blooms. All of a sudden in buzzed a bumblebee. I was gifted with a photo shoot featuring this fuzzy creature. [...]

By |2024-06-24T08:59:24-04:00June 24th, 2024|Fear, God's Plan, Imperfection, Spiritual Growth|

Steve’s Final Message

Good morning... Several of you have asked for a copy the final chapel message given by my husband Steve as he leaves the role of head chaplain at The Lovett School after twenty-nine years. I share it with you now, an encouraging message for all of us, whatever our life stage, wherever we wake. Controversy is an unavoidable [...]

By |2024-05-15T01:28:33-04:00May 15th, 2024|Everyday life, God's Love, Human Nature, Imperfection|

Are My Feelings Normal?

Good morning... I brought home this interesting page of facts from our therapeutic community group at PAWkids last week.  YOU'RE HUMAN It's normal to... ....be sad from time to time for no reason. ...not have everything together. ...feel unsure, confused, or not to know. ...feel ugly some days and cute other days. ...have been unprepared for how things [...]

By |2024-04-29T02:02:52-04:00April 29th, 2024|Everyday life, Human Nature, Imperfection, Trust God|

Feel Everything Often

Good morning... Returning to our collective wisdom, I pulled out my page of notes from our therapeutic community group at PAWkids on Tuesday morning. These words strengthened me for unexpectedly hard moments ahead. We can’t selectively feel our emotions. We can’t choose the “good” ones without dealing with the “bad" ones. Our feelings are all intertwined. I don’t [...]

By |2024-04-04T13:06:58-04:00April 4th, 2024|Healing, Imperfection, True Self, Trust God|
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