The Inconsolable Stage Of Grief

Good morning... He and his wife watched Manchester by the Sea and they found themselves discussing it at length that night and into the next day. Later, he wrote me: "For some reason I'm reminded of a poem by W. H. Auden that so stunningly expresses the terrible stage of grief where one is inconsolable. It's Funeral Blues, which [...]

By |2018-06-15T12:01:28-04:00March 12th, 2017|Grief, Healing, Letting Go|

We Keep Everything That Matters

Good morning... She read aloud another favorite quote: "And then it felt as though these thoughts came across to me in a prayer: 'Walk on with empty hands, because I have so much more to give you in the future, and you can't receive it if your hands are full. Don't be afraid that in letting go you are [...]

By |2018-06-15T12:36:50-04:00March 7th, 2017|Grief, Letting Go, Light In Darkness|

We Keep Everything That Matters

She read aloud another favorite quote: "And then it felt as though these thoughts came across to me in a prayer: 'Walk on with empty hands, because I have so much more to give you in the future, and you can't receive it if your hands are full. Don't be afraid that in letting go you are losing anything [...]

By |2017-09-01T02:09:44-04:00March 7th, 2017|Fear, Letting Go|

Happily Trust And Obey

Good morning... As I was texting back and forth with a close friend recently diagnosed with cancer, the words from an old hymn came bubbling up, "Trust and obey, for there is no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey." We were both drawn to the simplicity of focus. Be happy in Jesus. Trust. [...]

By |2018-06-15T13:06:40-04:00March 4th, 2017|Fear, Letting Go, Trust God|

God Continues The Conversation

Good morning... Continuing yesterday's conversation, God drew me to an article entitled 40 things to give up for Lent and beyond, a list published in 2015 by Phil Ressler. Might we pick one inner quality to reflect upon during each of the forty days in Lent? There are forty days between Ash Wednesday and the Saturday before Easter, minus [...]

By |2018-06-15T13:12:05-04:00March 3rd, 2017|Letting Go, Prayer, Transformation|

What Are We Giving Up For Lent?

Good morning... During our Listening Group yesterday, we placed our base on this truth: God is love (1 John 4:8b). God is patient. God is kind. God does not envy. He does not boast, is not proud. God does not dishonor others, is not self-seeking. He is not easily angered and keeps no record of wrongs. God does not [...]

By |2018-06-15T13:17:40-04:00March 2nd, 2017|Letting Go, Love, Transformation|

Lent: A Season Of Shaking

Good morning... "I guess I view Lent as a season of shaking," I said as I stepped to the microphone to end our Women's Lenten Communion Service. I explained that one of my favorite Christmas traditions is cutting down a fresh Virginia pine from a nearby tree farm. We go together as a family, circling around and around to [...]

By |2018-06-15T13:22:21-04:00March 1st, 2017|Letting Go, Transformation, Trust God|

I Talk Too Much

Good morning... Prayerfully reflecting on our intimate conversation, God exposed my own fearful coping mechanism. In the face of tearful, grieving pain, I talked too much. I took up too much space in the room. Stuck in my head, I rambled on. An excessive amount of words poured out of my mouth, as I tried to explain God's big [...]

By |2018-06-15T14:49:08-04:00February 16th, 2017|Anxiety, Fear, Letting Go, Pain|

Words We Love

Good morning... Every morning, I try to discern a truth God is teaching. "...he who has My word, let him speak My word faithfully. What has straw in common with wheat [for nourishment]?” says the Lord. Is not My word like fire [that consumes all that cannot endure the test]?” says the Lord, “and like a hammer that breaks [...]

By |2018-06-15T15:01:07-04:00February 14th, 2017|God's Word, Letting Go, Organic Growth, Transformation|

Changing A Church Sign

Good morning... I passed a sign in the front lawn of a little church. "What you hold on to is your God." If I were the sign-putter-outer, I would change three things. The pronouns. The capitalization. And I would add one more word. "What we hold on to fiercely is our god." First off, God is God, and God [...]

By |2018-06-15T15:58:55-04:00February 5th, 2017|Letting Go, True Self, Trust God|
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