Deep Needs In N.C.

Good morning... I have been emailing back and forth with my special friend, Gina Macfarland, who lives in Black Mountain, North Carolina. Yesterday, she sent me a very real, very touching documentary created to shed light on the vulnerable human experience in the wake of Hurricane Helene. "In all the heaviness, almost every time there is an equal [...]

By |2024-10-19T03:41:39-04:00October 19th, 2024|Community, Loss, Pain, Tragedy|

Normal Washed Away

Good morning... "We miss the normal this hurricane washed away." Her haunting sentence stays with me long after the interview is over. Our prayers continue, prayers for a new normal to somehow form around those grieving deep loss. The light of the full moon will be like the sun’s glare, and the sun’s glare will be seven times [...]

By |2024-10-05T03:14:26-04:00October 5th, 2024|Everyday life, Healing, Light In Darkness, Loss|

No Easy Answers

Good morning... "Prior to my loss, my prayers had been petitions for things I hoped to have or intercessions for others," writes beloved author Paula D'Arcy, who lost her husband and her three year old daughter to the recklessness of a drunk driver. "Now my one prayer was, 'Show me. Show me,' or, 'Teach me how to see.' [...]

By |2024-07-13T02:04:36-04:00July 13th, 2024|Holy Spirit, Imperfection, Loss, Prayer|

Sadness Brings Healing

Good morning... Preparing to see Inside Out 2 in the theatre, I re-watched the original 2015 version of Inside Out. Inside Out tracks the inner workings of the mind of Riley, a young girl who struggles to adapt to her family's move, as five personified emotions guide her thoughts and her actions. One of my favorite parts of [...]

By |2024-07-03T03:54:15-04:00July 3rd, 2024|Grief, Healing, Loss, Sadness|

For Those Facing Loss

Good morning... "I shared this on Facebook on Wednesday," emailed a longtime friend. ****** For those facing loss today . . LOVE CAME FIRST "You don’t move on after loss, but you must move with. You must shake hands with grief, welcome her in, for she lives with you now. Pull her a chair at the table and [...]

By |2024-07-02T13:48:09-04:00July 2nd, 2024|God's Love, Grief, Listen, Loss|

Our Fight For Life

Good morning... "Hi, Sue," he wrote this week. "I hope all is well with you and your family." "I also hope everyone will take a moment on Monday to reflect on the Americans who died in the service of their country," he continued. "Memorial Day is a wonderful time to get together with family and friends; but more [...]

By |2024-05-27T09:54:28-04:00May 27th, 2024|Death And Resurrection, Everyday life, Loss, Trust God|

Facing Cancer, Alzheimers, Loss

Good morning... Many were touched by the song in yesterday's post, What Lies Ahead? A variety of people wrote to me privately in response. (Some people are facing a grueling cancer journey with loved ones, others are being reshaped by the impact of Alzheimers, and still others are facing various forms of loss, grief, pain.) As the days [...]

By |2023-06-20T08:52:58-04:00June 20th, 2023|Loss, True Self, Trust God|

From Miscarriage To Motherhood

Good morning... Along life's way, many women lose at least one child to miscarriage or to a full term still birth. I myself had four miscarriages before giving birth to our four great kids. This is a quiet grief with empty arms, a grief which reshapes our soul. "It is good for me to stop and feel the [...]

By |2022-11-30T09:25:26-05:00November 30th, 2022|Gratitude, Grief, Loss|

Steve Reflects On Loss

Good morning... My husband Steve has been a chaplain, teacher, and wrestling coach at The Lovett School since 1996 (minus his two year stint as a college chaplain in New Wilmington, Pennsylvania). Steve works primarily with the upper school students, and he enjoys a great bond with the middle and lower school chaplains. Together their team of three [...]

By |2022-09-10T02:56:43-04:00September 10th, 2022|Loss, New From Old, Trust God|

When Our Strength Runs Out

Good morning... My dear friend's husband died on Sunday night after a long, excruciating battle with a rare disease. He was just sixty-four years old. I am grateful this friend turned me onto the brilliant work of author Kate Bowler. It gives me great comfort knowing we both savored this holy blessing as we woke yesterday. ****** A [...]

By |2022-08-25T02:18:35-04:00August 25th, 2022|Friendship, Letting Go, Loss|
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