Treasures In This Darkness

Good morning... Hurricane hell. Deep depression. Open heart surgery. Harsh cancer treatment. War and terror. Division, divorce, and death. Darkness seems to seep into every crevice of our wounding world. "The power of God's promise stunned me so much that I actually gasped out loud," writes Kay Warren on page 105 of Choose Joy. I will give you [...]

By |2024-10-23T10:31:25-04:00October 23rd, 2024|Light In Darkness, New From Old, Pain, Trust God|

Deep Needs In N.C.

Good morning... I have been emailing back and forth with my special friend, Gina Macfarland, who lives in Black Mountain, North Carolina. Yesterday, she sent me a very real, very touching documentary created to shed light on the vulnerable human experience in the wake of Hurricane Helene. "In all the heaviness, almost every time there is an equal [...]

By |2024-10-19T03:41:39-04:00October 19th, 2024|Community, Loss, Pain, Tragedy|

“It’s Cancer.”

Good morning... Tonight the nearly full moon lit up the room, beaconing me outside. Barefoot I stood in the damp, cold grass, marveling at the light piercing the night. I thought of a book excerpt we read aloud in class this week from page 87 of Choose Joy by Kay Warren. "My brain froze," Warren writes. "I wanted [...]

By |2024-10-15T02:24:06-04:00October 15th, 2024|Everyday life, God's Timing, Light In Darkness, Pain|

Loving Those Who Suffer

Good morning... This week our blogs have focused on supporting one another, close friends and strangers, through the painful parts of life. A longtime friend wrote me a touching email about the loving support she received years ago. ****** Letters by Ella Herlihy In response to your post about how to love someone well when they are suffering [...]

By |2024-08-24T03:38:00-04:00August 24th, 2024|Authenticity, God's Love, Healing, Pain|

Tears Run Down My Face

Good morning... She wrote me after yesterday's post, Abby's Anniversary. "Sue, I don’t personally know any of these people and I’m reading your message with tears running down my face. I can’t imagine facing what they face. Is there anything someone who doesn’t know them can do to support? Obviously I’ve been praying for all of them. But [...]

By |2024-08-23T08:45:53-04:00August 23rd, 2024|God's Love, Grief, Healing, Pain, Prayer|

On Abby’s Anniversary

Good morning... In the middle of the night I wrote yesterday's blog message, Abby. Audrey. Eliza. Then I climbed back into bed. After waking from my second sleep, I re-read Abby Smith's obituary and was surprised by the final line: The Celebration Service of Abby's life will be held on Sunday, August 21st at 3:00pm at Northside Church [...]

By |2024-08-22T05:34:33-04:00August 22nd, 2024|God's Love, Healing, Pain, Trust God|

We’re People Who Hurt

Good morning... Kyshona Armstrong is a singer-song writer who has performed on the shores of Florida's 30-A. Kyshona tenderly reminds us, "We are fallen people living in a fallen world. We're fallen people, people who who hurt." Having savored the song several times, it strikes me that "hurt" is a multifaceted word. "Hurt" goes both ways. Throughout our [...]

By |2024-06-22T07:31:55-04:00June 22nd, 2024|Everyday life, God's Love, Healing, Pain|

Why Bother?

Good morning... "Why bother?" asks Sean Thomas Dougherty. Then, he answers his own question. "Because right now, there is someone out there with a wound in the exact shape of your words." Painful wounds and healing words meet at the right moment. Here, at the crossroads of wounds and words, God's presence is palpable. Might the power of [...]

By |2024-06-07T02:20:15-04:00June 7th, 2024|Everyday life, God's Word, Healing, Pain|

United In Pain And Sorrow

Good morning... When a friend from our Friday group sent the quote and image above, we collectively embraced the eternal truth. "Hearts united in pain and sorrow will not be separated by joy and happiness," says Khalil Gibran. "Bonds that are woven in sadness are stronger than the ties of joy and pleasure. Love that is washed by [...]

By |2024-06-06T03:05:40-04:00June 6th, 2024|Community, Everyday life, God's Love, Pain|

My Mom Suddenly Fell

Good morning... We enjoyed a slow, low-key day after my parents' joyful Music Man performance at their senior living community in Ohio. Waking late. Talking over breakfast. Enjoying a relaxing morning together. Going to an appointment with the eye doctor. Grateful for good news, "Everything looks great." Stopping by Dairy Queen to order an ice cream cake for [...]

By |2024-06-04T07:28:29-04:00June 4th, 2024|Aging, Pain, Prayer, Trust God|
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