Living Through Loneliness

Good morning... I enjoy the mornings when God lets me sleep past 5:00 am. That is the time Henri Nouwen Society sends out their Daily Meditation. Sometimes I open the post and wallow in the wisdom. Sometimes I do not. Today I did and here is what I read. ****** Loneliness by Henri Nouwen, February 6, 2019 It [...]

By |2019-02-06T19:55:27-05:00February 6th, 2019|Human Nature, Pain, Spiritual Growth, Transformation|

Growing Pains In The Dark

Good morning... Our family is short. You saw photos of my parents in a few recent posts, my parents who stand 5-feet-1 and 5-feet-3. My older sister and I stand up really tall to reach 5-feet ourselves, and our younger brother is the giant of our family at a whopping 5-feet-9. My husband is also 5-feet-9, and our [...]

By |2019-02-03T08:38:55-05:00February 2nd, 2019|Aging, Pain, Spiritual Growth, Transformation, True Self|

Someone With Skin On

Good morning... Two Fridays ago loved ones packed the place, celebrating the life of a young man who died on his nineteenth birthday. Friends and family members shared stories, tearful and touching, funny and full-of-life. One of the minsters urged us to trust this truth: "Nothing is lost that love remembers." The other minister, my husband, told the [...]

By |2019-01-04T08:02:22-05:00January 4th, 2019|God's Love, Grief, Loss, Pain|

We Share Each Other’s Pain

Good morning... Re-editing our post from a few days ago, I stick in a strange new word that somehow feels right. Viscerally. I am drawn to add viscerally (touch "Previous. Previous." above to revisit this message). The sentence now reads: "My gut viscerally felt like the knotted debris still littering the roads after Hurricane Michael." I google this foreign-to-me [...]

By |2019-01-03T11:59:18-05:00January 3rd, 2019|Community, Grief, Healing, Pain|

My Funky Favorite Ornament

Good morning... Because our newly refinished hardwoods are not ready to welcome a fresh-cut tree our main floor, an eight-foot Virginia pine this year is set up in our basement, the space where God and I host individual and group spiritual direction sessions regularly. After a sacred session this week, she and I marveled at the tree. "What [...]

By |2018-12-20T13:26:02-05:00December 22nd, 2018|God's Love, Listen, Pain, True Self|

Sadness Is A Low-grade Fever

Good morning... The nineteen year old son of a family in our community did not wake up yesterday, the morning after he had routine surgery to remove his appendix. Having a nineteen year old ourselves, I can not imagine the excruciating pain of his parents. Our seventeen year old son goes to school with the grieving brother and [...]

By |2018-12-17T12:06:54-05:00December 17th, 2018|Letting Go, Loss, Pain, Sadness, Silence And Solitude|

We Cling Hard When We Hurt

Good morning... "I love reading your daily blog messages," one subscriber writes. "So many of them resonate with how I am thinking and feeling." "As both you and your readers commented, so many of our hurt feelings are due to how we interpret comments of others," she observes. "Our interpretations highlight our insecurities and expose our false sources [...]

By |2018-12-08T06:36:29-05:00December 8th, 2018|Anxiety, Fear, Letting Go, Pain, Trust God|

God’s Blessing In Our Stressing

Good morning... During times of discombobulating stress, a helpful saying saturates me. "The brook would lose its song if God removed the rocks." We hate the hard knocks from life's jagged rocks, but we love the calming beauty babbling from the brook. Stones and songs. Songs and stones. We do not get one without the other. Stones and songs. [...]

By |2018-12-07T08:14:09-05:00December 7th, 2018|Everyday life, God's Plan, Nature, Pain|

God Uses Our Bruises

Good morning... Our recent post, My Feelings Were Hurt, stepped on a very vulnerable nerve. So many responses came rushing in that I did not have the time to express gratitude to all of you individually. So this post is my collective "Thank you" for helping us to examine the bricks in the wall between our hurting hearts [...]

By |2018-12-06T06:58:07-05:00December 6th, 2018|Pain, Prayer, Transformation, Trust God|

I Was Wrong

Good morning... I wake convicted of my unintended error. One sentence from yesterday's post is mistaken, misguided, misleading. I was wrong to write: "To forgive even the worst offender, we commit to not talk badly about the person, we commit to not think badly about the person, we commit to pray for the person, "letting it all be" in [...]

By |2018-11-04T09:39:59-05:00November 4th, 2018|Healing, Pain, Prayer, Transformation|
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