Good morning... I woke up to a precious email from a mother. Since God took a long time crafting His heartfelt response to her through me, I thought the wisdom gleaned might be helpful for others in our "sue2you" community who are caring for those grieving. A teen rocked by the loss of her dear young friend is questioning [...]
Good morning... Today, I celebrate the birthday of a special friend who, if she had been healthy on earth, would have blown out twelve candles on her birthday cake at her family's dinner table tonight. Instead, at age seven, on 8.17.11, she was scooped up by God's big arms of love and welcomed warmly into her forever home. Her [...]
Good morning... The son of a mom in our "sue2you" community is a junior at a nearby high school. This young man embraced the privilege of being asked to share a message on Friday at the funeral of his friend. With permission from both this brave, articulate young person and the loving mom who grieves on earth while her [...]
Good morning... Through the words of Henri Nouwen in his 3.19.16 daily meditation, it feels like God is sitting right in the midst of our confused, heartbroken community, answering a question burdening our minds and hearts. We are struggling to make sense of the shocking deaths of three well loved people in the past three weeks, a mom of [...]
Good morning... One song ran through my mind repeatedly yesterday as my heart was prayerfully focused on those hurting tremendously in our community. The song filling my being all day long was the song we used to sing to our children every night as we tucked them into bed after a story and a prayer. Through nightly repetition, this [...]
Good morning... Rubbed thin. That is how many of us feel right now. Rubbed thin from incomprehensible tragedy. Rubbed thin from a plethora of needs jockeying for our time and attention. Rubbed thin from jumbled up emotions we can not put into words. We who feel rubbed thin are ones who have taken the "often amazing, sometimes awful" risk [...]
Good morning... Reading the obituary of a boy my daughter's age is sobering. A junior at a nearby high school, his list of accolades are long and life-affirming. A three sport athlete. A well respected Eagle scout. A young man with a heart for the underprivileged in our community. An active member of a local church, a special place [...]
Good morning... The two places where we have absolutely no control are "yesterdays" and "tomorrows." We can not erase anything from the crowded chalkboard of "yesterdays." We can not scribble ahead to gain understanding from the blank slate of "tomorrows." Today we do not control, but today we can influence. With our attitude. With our gratitude. With our keen [...]
Good morning... Last week, my "solidarity headache" (see my 3.1.16 post, "I have a headache.") morphed into an ear ache and sore throat, then a cough and chest congestion, before I had the full blown virus so many have been battling this season. At the height of my cruddy sickness, I was reminded of a scary childhood memory. As [...]
Good morning... My journal defined more of my twenty-five year old self on 5.1.88. I wrote: "The process of continued growth leads to outgrowing certain people, certain places, certain beliefs as time passes. There is sadness in outgrowing. It means I can never go back and fit into the old shell in the same way again. The shell that [...]
