My Husband’s Message

Good morning... My husband, Rev. Steve Allen, shared a life-giving message during Tuesday's memorial service, honoring another deeply missed dad in our close-knit community. Steve chose to read what seemed like an "odd" Scripture for a funeral, at first glance. Aloud he read: Jesus said to one who had invited him to a dinner, "When you give a luncheon, [...]

By |2019-06-14T13:27:08-04:00June 15th, 2019|Everyday life, Family and Friends, Grief, Light In Darkness|

The Poem In His Wallet

Good morning... Before J Schroeder died, he taught people how to live. Stepping up to the microphone at his memorial service, his deeply loved wife described J as "a force of nature," admitting "Everyone wanted to be in his orbit." Grateful for joy-filled years together, she said, "I am so glad he chose me." After sharing bonding stories, [...]

By |2019-06-14T08:13:43-04:00June 14th, 2019|Aging, Everyday life, Gratitude, Trust God|

Two Daughters Let Go

Good morning... At Tuesday's memorial service, two dearly loved daughters stepped up to the microphone. One recounted a string of incredible memories of a passionate dad who held nothing back, loving freely and fully, each day of his life. The other daughter read aloud the following poem, allowing us all to feel the power of deep love living [...]

By |2019-06-13T00:27:26-04:00June 13th, 2019|Family and Friends, Grief, Letting Go, Loss|

Still Our Ocean Of Emotions

Good morning... "Sad songs, they say so much," sings a lyric many of us know. Yet "sad" is relative and "saying so much" is important for every one of us. The music at yesterday's memorial service honoring J Schroeder, beloved 61-year-old husband and dad, son, brother, friend, was moving and meaningful. The following song invited us to quietly [...]

By |2019-06-12T06:51:12-04:00June 12th, 2019|Community, Death And Resurrection, Grief, Mystery, Trust God|

Burying A Beloved One

Good morning... On the morning when another family in our community will host a memorial service for a beloved husband, father, friend, I return to the illusive promise eluded to in yesterday's post. On this one-of-a-kind day, how can the joy of the Lord be our strength? And Nehemiah continued, “Go and celebrate with a feast of rich foods [...]

By |2019-06-11T08:18:23-04:00June 11th, 2019|Family and Friends, Grief, Joy, Trust God|

A Little Boy’s T-Shirt

Good morning... "My brain is 95% song lyrics," said the little boy's t-shirt at the airport on Friday. While waiting for our plane, my three traveling family members scoffed at me as I pulled out my journal and recorded the quote. Then my husband and I proceeded to laugh with our two daughters, 20 and 22-years-old, as together [...]

By |2019-06-10T09:16:10-04:00June 10th, 2019|Awareness, Everyday life, Joy, True Self|

Savor Sabbath: Remain Screwed In

Good morning... As we savor this Sabbath, we slow down. We rest. We look back. We live now. We move forward with God. Encouraging phases have held us well this week. Remain screwed in. Stay plugged in. Unlearn a lot. As we revisit posts from this week, gratitude grows, as we catch our breath before living on. We [...]

By |2019-06-07T08:25:43-04:00June 9th, 2019|Community, Everyday life, Gratitude, Sabbath|

Unlearn A Lot

Good morning... "As Desmond Tutu told me on a recent trip to Capetown, 'We are only the light bulbs, Richard, and our job is just to remain screwed in!" we return again to the Rohr quote guiding us this week. Then we quietly move forward to explore with God the next set of words. "I believe that God [...]

By |2019-06-07T07:40:40-04:00June 8th, 2019|Aging, God's Plan, Human Nature, Spiritual Growth, True Self|

Be A Light Bulb

Good morning... I cannot unplug from Richard Rohr's quote in Falling Upward: "As Desmond Tutu told me on a recent trip to Cape Town, 'We are only the light bulbs, Richard, and our job is just to remain screwed in!'" (ix) Jesus says a similar thing, "Remain in Me, and I [will remain] in you...for [otherwise] apart from Me [that [...]

By |2019-06-06T03:48:00-04:00June 6th, 2019|Everyday life, God's Plan, Healing, Light In Darkness, Trust God|
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