She Licked My Tears

Good morning... Last Monday night, we had dinner with our small group, a group we've been meeting with regularly for several years now. Each time we've gathered, we've shared a meal and talked about faith and kids, weddings and grandkids, aging parents and life's highs and lows. One man asked, "Throughout your lifetime, what life phase has been [...]

By |2025-11-18T01:54:01-05:00November 18th, 2025|Aging, Everyday life, Family and Friends, Grief, New From Old|

Grieve And Still Thank

Good morning... When I woke for the second time to take out our puppy, I noticed this wisdom gracing my phone. Texted by a friend at 3:19 am, these words resonated deeply. ****** You can grieve the what-would-have-beens and still thank Him for what is. You can miss someone deeply and still trust He's creating beauty from brokenness. [...]

By |2025-11-14T04:14:25-05:00November 14th, 2025|Gratitude, Grief, Pain, Sadness, Trust God|

Mangled Mobile Home

Good morning... Last Sunday, I worshiped with my friend at Swannanoa Church in Swannanoa, North Carolina. Hurricane Helene devastated much of the area one year ago this week. Friendly, multi-generational, bursting with authentic connection, the community church felt real and restorative. "There is nothing like living through tragedy together to create a lasting bond," I thought to myself. [...]

By |2025-09-29T02:36:41-04:00September 29th, 2025|Community, Grief, Light In Darkness, Tragedy, Trust God|

One Year After Helene

Good morning... Last weekend, I visited a friend in Black Mountain, North Carolina. I asked her to take me around to see places devastated by Hurricane Helene, and I listened as she shared her experience of the tremendous tragedy. The vicious storm struck in the middle of the night on September 27, 2024, (one year ago right now) [...]

By |2025-09-27T05:06:40-04:00September 27th, 2025|Community, Grief, Light In Darkness, Tragedy, Trust God|

Live Without Regret

Good morning... On Saturday afternoon, I received his email. A tried and true friend, his words always boost me. "Hi, Sue," he wrote. "I encourage you to read Patricia Holbrook’s column on page C2 of today’s AJC, entitled 'When grief teaches us to live without regret.' I particularly like these words: 'For those of us left behind, though, [...]

By |2025-09-26T02:36:47-04:00September 25th, 2025|Abundance, Everyday life, Gratitude, Grief, Trust God|

Her Heart Stopped

Good morning... A friend reached out yesterday. "Good morning Sue - I know your heart is very heavy, sending prayers for peace and comfort. I am sending you a video link. I saw it right after the devastating flood tragedy in Texas earlier this summer. Pastor Levi Lusko shared his perspective of God moving mountains in light of [...]

By |2025-09-24T10:36:51-04:00September 24th, 2025|Death And Resurrection, Everyday life, Grief, Trust God|

Life’s Dance Goes On

Good morning... "I often think I don’t know how people endure the unimaginable," my friend wrote, "but then I realize I actually really do know - only God. And I see evidence of that in so much devastating heartbreak time and time again. I think of that Steven Curtis Chapman quote, spoken after losing his young daughter suddenly [...]

By |2025-09-23T04:01:39-04:00September 23rd, 2025|Death And Resurrection, Everyday life, Gratitude, Grief, Trust God|

Mourning Benji’s Life

Good morning... At church this week, I stopped in the hall and talked a while with our Director of Student Ministries. I told him that I had heard he had done a really good job supporting the students who came to youth group on Sunday night. The night before, one of our own, sixteen year old Benji Reiser [...]

By |2025-09-19T06:07:32-04:00September 19th, 2025|Community, Death And Resurrection, Family and Friends, Grief, Healing|

This Hard, Heavy 9/11

Good morning... As we prepared to celebrate my husband Steve's thirty years of service to the Lovett School community, I found our wedding photo album from 1987. I snapped this photo of the photo of my dad walking me down the aisle. I was 24 years old. He was 51. Fast forward to today, September 11th, a day [...]

By |2025-09-11T10:18:48-04:00September 11th, 2025|Aging, Death And Resurrection, Family and Friends, Grief, Trust God|

A Hard Labor Day

Good morning... On a day set aside to celebrate the American worker, this is a hard Labor Day for many. Job loss. Unemployment. How to pay the bills? Instability. Threat of violence. Uncertainty about the future. Many feel torn apart, as discombobulated as this shadow photo taken by my artist friend Corinne Adams. "So many colleagues and amazing [...]

By |2025-09-01T13:57:13-04:00September 1st, 2025|Everyday life, Grief, Joy, Pain|
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