Listening To Grief Together

Good morning... Sitting in silence with God and each other, we "come to rest" at a deeper, wider place within our soul. Prayerfully living from our innermost self, we are invited to gather around a common table. One of my favorite poets pulls up a chair and helps us to grieve deep losses together. ****** Only a Few [...]

By |2023-10-12T09:39:52-04:00October 12th, 2023|Discernment, Grief, Listen|

Jerry Landers Went To Jesus

Good morning... Gathering around the kitchen island as one dear friend prepared a birthday dinner for another dear friend, we were discussing how important Jerry and Anne Landers have been to our church family, for years and years and years. Teaching Sunday school. Leading Bible studies. Facilitating worship experiences. Instigating healing prayer. Volunteering on committee after committee. Sharing [...]

By |2023-10-09T04:22:16-04:00October 9th, 2023|Death And Resurrection, Gratitude, Grief|

Joy And Sadness Are Born Together

Good morning... A friend emailed me the Nouwen devotional below. It serves as a grounding reminder: joy and sadness are born together. ****** DAILY MEDITATION | SEPTEMBER 9, 2023 - by Henri Nouwen - Every Bit of Life is Touched by a Bit of Death Joy and sadness are as close to each other as the splendid colored [...]

By |2023-09-13T06:25:29-04:00September 13th, 2023|Everyday life, Grief, Joy|

Remembering The Names

Good morning... I pulled the three stapled pages from my mailbox at church and read his kind note. "I wanted to share this poem by Billy Collins in case you haven't read it before. Collins wrote it in 2002 to commemorate the one-year anniversary of 9/11/01. I think it captures the heartbreak of the senseless taking of hundreds [...]

By |2023-09-12T23:45:11-04:00September 12th, 2023|Death And Resurrection, Grief, Trust God|

In Those Quiet Hours

Good morning... I happened upon a gorgeous reading just posted by one of my favorite poets. In processing her own grief after her son Finn's death, Rosemerry Wahtola Trommer has become for many of us like the sweet sun rising in the dark of night. The sun rises and the sun sets, and hurries back [...]

By |2023-09-09T05:16:28-04:00September 9th, 2023|Grief, Light In Darkness, Silence And Solitude, Suicide|

One Marries. One Dies. Why?

Good morning... On September 3rd, as we celebrated the new life born from the wedded union of our oldest son and his wife, one of Kyler's Lovett School classmates died of cancer. In my memory, Pearce Howell and his twin sister Laura were gently kindhearted and quite talented athletically. He played baseball; she played soccer. The twins would [...]

By |2023-09-08T09:39:21-04:00September 8th, 2023|Death And Resurrection, Grief, Mystery|

Another Remedy For Grief

Good morning... "Good morning Sue!" she wrote after yesterday's blog post, Might We Tip Toward Joy? "I loved this morning’s reflection! We are savoring the Western version of your friend’s joy-filled remedy for grief. Here in Jackson Hole with our adult children, along with one of their sweet girlfriends and another college friend, we are savoring gorgeous hikes, [...]

By |2023-06-15T08:37:20-04:00June 15th, 2023|Everyday life, Gratitude, Grief|

On Being Broken Hearted

Good morning... “My custom has always been to ponder grief; that is, to follow it through ventricle and aorta to find out its lurking places," writes Marilynne Robinson in the novel Gilead. "That old weight in the chest, telling me there is something I must dwell on, because I know more than I know and must learn it [...]

By |2023-05-02T03:30:26-04:00May 2nd, 2023|God's Love, Gratitude, Grief|

My Pile Of Dirty Laundry

Good morning... After experiencing the Legacy Museum and The National Memorial for Peace and Justice in Montgomery, Alabama, I am haunted by the inhumanity, the ugly pain inflicted on millions and millions of black skinned people over the centuries, and the way my privileged, comfortable life has really, really bloody roots. I feel compelled to deal with my [...]

By |2023-05-02T03:55:19-04:00April 29th, 2023|Everyday life, Grief, Transformation|
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