God Winks At The Perfect Time

Good morning... "Sue, I had to tell you about the 'God Wink' we had this morning and how God used you to reach out to us through your blog," she emailed me last week. "We were driving up to Highlands, NC this morning with husband's siblings and families. The purpose of our journey was to have a small ceremony to [...]

By |2017-10-19T08:57:07-04:00October 12th, 2017|God's Timing, Grief, Letting Go|

Tucking In Ashes

Good Morning... “The tucking in ceremony was so sad and so special,” my friend told me after a very significant family funeral. “What is a ‘tucking in’ ceremony?” I asked. She described for me her experience. After their loved one was cremated, following the funeral, the family members took turns digging a hole on a holy plot of land and, [...]

By |2017-10-18T15:17:44-04:00October 7th, 2017|Grief, Letting Go, Tragedy|

Our Naked Essence

Good morning... "All great spirituality teaches about letting go of what you don’t need and who you are not," says Richard Rohr, American Franciscan friar who is a beloved, prolific writer. "Then, when you can get little enough and naked enough and poor enough, you’ll find that the little place where you really are is ironically more than enough [...]

By |2018-06-15T10:54:41-04:00March 21st, 2017|Letting Go, Love, True Self, Trust God|

Experiencing A Natural Birth

Good morning... I gave birth to each one of our four kids naturally. When birthing new life, we endure extreme pain with a well-defined purpose. Near the end of the process, a significant shift occurs. Having spent hour after grueling hour weathering waves of contractions, keeping the baby "in," it finally comes time to get the baby "out!" Each [...]

By |2018-06-15T11:35:01-04:00March 16th, 2017|God's Plan, Letting Go, Pain|

A Pathway Through Our Pain

Good morning... How do we live through excruciating pain? We turn to Luke 22:41-45 (NIV) to discover a pathway. How did Jesus live through his darkest hours? 1) He withdrew a stone's throw beyond even his inner circle friends. We too give ourselves permission to withdraw, to separate, to take space away from even those we love the most. [...]

By |2018-06-15T11:46:47-04:00March 14th, 2017|Letting Go, Pain, Prayer, Trust God|

The Inconsolable Stage Of Grief

Good morning... He and his wife watched Manchester by the Sea and they found themselves discussing it at length that night and into the next day. Later, he wrote me: "For some reason I'm reminded of a poem by W. H. Auden that so stunningly expresses the terrible stage of grief where one is inconsolable. It's Funeral Blues, which [...]

By |2018-06-15T12:01:28-04:00March 12th, 2017|Grief, Healing, Letting Go|

We Keep Everything That Matters

Good morning... She read aloud another favorite quote: "And then it felt as though these thoughts came across to me in a prayer: 'Walk on with empty hands, because I have so much more to give you in the future, and you can't receive it if your hands are full. Don't be afraid that in letting go you are [...]

By |2018-06-15T12:36:50-04:00March 7th, 2017|Grief, Letting Go, Light In Darkness|

We Keep Everything That Matters

She read aloud another favorite quote: "And then it felt as though these thoughts came across to me in a prayer: 'Walk on with empty hands, because I have so much more to give you in the future, and you can't receive it if your hands are full. Don't be afraid that in letting go you are losing anything [...]

By |2017-09-01T02:09:44-04:00March 7th, 2017|Fear, Letting Go|

Happily Trust And Obey

Good morning... As I was texting back and forth with a close friend recently diagnosed with cancer, the words from an old hymn came bubbling up, "Trust and obey, for there is no other way to be happy in Jesus but to trust and obey." We were both drawn to the simplicity of focus. Be happy in Jesus. Trust. [...]

By |2018-06-15T13:06:40-04:00March 4th, 2017|Fear, Letting Go, Trust God|

God Continues The Conversation

Good morning... Continuing yesterday's conversation, God drew me to an article entitled 40 things to give up for Lent and beyond, a list published in 2015 by Phil Ressler. Might we pick one inner quality to reflect upon during each of the forty days in Lent? There are forty days between Ash Wednesday and the Saturday before Easter, minus [...]

By |2018-06-15T13:12:05-04:00March 3rd, 2017|Letting Go, Prayer, Transformation|
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