I’m Sorry. It’s Time.

Good morning... I have texted with a dear friend whose husband was forced to retire this week due to worsening health concerns. "My heart is heavy," she wrote. "We finished moving him completely out of his office yesterday. 35 years as a lawyer, reduced to a few boxes piled in a closet in the home office we are [...]

By |2022-03-14T08:52:14-04:00March 17th, 2022|Everyday life, God's Timing, Loss|

Grief Is Hard Work

Good morning... This encouraging video was created last April by our author for this semester, Paula D'Arcy, and her seasoned spiritual friend, Khris Ford. Well worth five minutes of our time, the insights shared may be helpful for those personally struggling through grief and for those seeking to walk beside a loved one who is slowly trudging through. [...]

By |2022-01-26T04:02:29-05:00January 26th, 2022|Grief, Healing, Loss|

Our Passage To New Life

Good morning... I chuckle to myself as I read Henri Nouwen's meditation for today. Was the eternal presence of Henri eavesdropping in the chapel at our Awake To Wholeness Women's Retreat with the eternal presence of Betty Skinner on Saturday? Henri's words for today sum up exactly what God was teaching us on our sacred day of retreat. [...]

By |2021-11-10T02:30:06-05:00November 9th, 2021|Everyday life, Loss, Trust God|

Grieving With God

Good morning... Grieving great loss, she slowly read aloud to me the Scripture sustaining her. "When I think of all this," she said softly, "I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength [...]

By |2020-08-18T06:11:10-04:00August 18th, 2020|God's Love, Grief, Healing, Loss|

Perspective Is Powerful

Good morning... Originally, this weekend was to host graduation festivities for high schoolers in our neck of the world's woods. Our youngest son would have been one of the many celebrating this long-anticipated rite of passage, capping years of hard work in the classroom, unforgettable moments on the sports field, and life-giving hours on a performance stage. No [...]

By |2020-05-16T12:04:33-04:00May 16th, 2020|Community, Everyday life, Grief, Loss, Trust God|

An Indescribable Blow

Good morning... "As terrific as chemo was on my body (and soul)," she wrote to me after yesterday's post, "losing my hair was an indescribable blow. I felt diminished, even invisible, and it was difficult to face myself in a mirror. Wigs, scarves, and hats felt fake and uncomfortable. I am sure that this huge ego recheck was [...]

By |2020-04-28T03:26:36-04:00April 28th, 2020|Death And Resurrection, Letting Go, Loss, New From Old, Organic Growth|

When We Feel Cut Back

Good morning... "Good vines require cutting and more cutting," says Sr. Judith Sutera, a Benedictine nun and vinedresser. "A mile of runners won't give you one more grape, so get rid of the branches that do not bear fruit. Do you want to keep everything? Then expect nothing. Cut. And then cut some more." By nature, I am [...]

By |2020-02-12T03:21:13-05:00February 11th, 2020|Death And Resurrection, Everyday life, Loss, Organic Growth, Trust God|

One Trusting Wife

Good morning... On September 10th at 9:48 am, after reading our post, We Are Learning To Trust, one reader wrote me a touching email. "Last night my family and I moved my husband of 63 years into hospice care. Your writing about trust spoke to me profoundly this morning. My journey these next few weeks or days leaves [...]

By |2019-09-13T07:23:20-04:00September 13th, 2019|Everyday life, Letting Go, Loss, Trust God|

Choose Joy In Deep Loss

Good morning... "Sue, Thank you for your post this morning," she wrote after yesterday's message Flip On The Light. "Watching the movie clip made me smile and cry, which surprised me. I think it is a lot of things wrapped into one." She went on to explain, "One of the greatest compliments that I have received, since our 7-year-old [...]

By |2019-07-24T13:05:53-04:00July 25th, 2019|Everyday life, Grief, Healing, Joy, Loss|

Do NOT Be My Friend

Good morning... With loss after loss after loss, it feels like tragedy swarms like bees around me and my husband. I sometimes feel like whispering a warning to people, "Do NOT be our friend." My fearful thinking continues: "Because if you are our friend, deep pain may descend." Then one of you wrote me a truly touching email [...]

By |2019-07-21T08:59:09-04:00July 22nd, 2019|Community, Friendship, God's Love, Loss|
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