Steve Reflects On Loss

Good morning... My husband Steve has been a chaplain, teacher, and wrestling coach at The Lovett School since 1996 (minus his two year stint as a college chaplain in New Wilmington, Pennsylvania). Steve works primarily with the upper school students, and he enjoys a great bond with the middle and lower school chaplains. Together their team of three [...]

By |2022-09-10T02:56:43-04:00September 10th, 2022|Loss, New From Old, Trust God|

When Our Strength Runs Out

Good morning... My dear friend's husband died on Sunday night after a long, excruciating battle with a rare disease. He was just sixty-four years old. I am grateful this friend turned me onto the brilliant work of author Kate Bowler. It gives me great comfort knowing we both savored this holy blessing as we woke yesterday. ****** A [...]

By |2022-08-25T02:18:35-04:00August 25th, 2022|Friendship, Letting Go, Loss|

I’m Sorry. It’s Time.

Good morning... I have texted with a dear friend whose husband was forced to retire this week due to worsening health concerns. "My heart is heavy," she wrote. "We finished moving him completely out of his office yesterday. 35 years as a lawyer, reduced to a few boxes piled in a closet in the home office we are [...]

By |2022-03-14T08:52:14-04:00March 17th, 2022|Everyday life, God's Timing, Loss|

Grief Is Hard Work

Good morning... This encouraging video was created last April by our author for this semester, Paula D'Arcy, and her seasoned spiritual friend, Khris Ford. Well worth five minutes of our time, the insights shared may be helpful for those personally struggling through grief and for those seeking to walk beside a loved one who is slowly trudging through. [...]

By |2022-01-26T04:02:29-05:00January 26th, 2022|Grief, Healing, Loss|

Our Passage To New Life

Good morning... I chuckle to myself as I read Henri Nouwen's meditation for today. Was the eternal presence of Henri eavesdropping in the chapel at our Awake To Wholeness Women's Retreat with the eternal presence of Betty Skinner on Saturday? Henri's words for today sum up exactly what God was teaching us on our sacred day of retreat. [...]

By |2021-11-10T02:30:06-05:00November 9th, 2021|Everyday life, Loss, Trust God|

Grieving With God

Good morning... Grieving great loss, she slowly read aloud to me the Scripture sustaining her. "When I think of all this," she said softly, "I fall to my knees and pray to the Father, the Creator of everything in heaven and on earth. I pray that from his glorious, unlimited resources he will empower you with inner strength [...]

By |2020-08-18T06:11:10-04:00August 18th, 2020|God's Love, Grief, Healing, Loss|

Perspective Is Powerful

Good morning... Originally, this weekend was to host graduation festivities for high schoolers in our neck of the world's woods. Our youngest son would have been one of the many celebrating this long-anticipated rite of passage, capping years of hard work in the classroom, unforgettable moments on the sports field, and life-giving hours on a performance stage. No [...]

By |2020-05-16T12:04:33-04:00May 16th, 2020|Community, Everyday life, Grief, Loss, Trust God|

An Indescribable Blow

Good morning... "As terrific as chemo was on my body (and soul)," she wrote to me after yesterday's post, "losing my hair was an indescribable blow. I felt diminished, even invisible, and it was difficult to face myself in a mirror. Wigs, scarves, and hats felt fake and uncomfortable. I am sure that this huge ego recheck was [...]

By |2020-04-28T03:26:36-04:00April 28th, 2020|Death And Resurrection, Letting Go, Loss, New From Old, Organic Growth|

When We Feel Cut Back

Good morning... "Good vines require cutting and more cutting," says Sr. Judith Sutera, a Benedictine nun and vinedresser. "A mile of runners won't give you one more grape, so get rid of the branches that do not bear fruit. Do you want to keep everything? Then expect nothing. Cut. And then cut some more." By nature, I am [...]

By |2020-02-12T03:21:13-05:00February 11th, 2020|Death And Resurrection, Everyday life, Loss, Organic Growth, Trust God|

One Trusting Wife

Good morning... On September 10th at 9:48 am, after reading our post, We Are Learning To Trust, one reader wrote me a touching email. "Last night my family and I moved my husband of 63 years into hospice care. Your writing about trust spoke to me profoundly this morning. My journey these next few weeks or days leaves [...]

By |2019-09-13T07:23:20-04:00September 13th, 2019|Everyday life, Letting Go, Loss, Trust God|
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